Individuals get hurt and become defensive. Then they put of their walls of protection. They fight, resist, hang on and withdraw. This in turn creates a cycle of conflict that destroys love and produces suffering in the relationship.
This condition also creates a state of fear, upset and tunnel vision. It destroys your ability to find solutions and forces you to magnify the problem.
Until this underlying condition is found and removed, you will be forced to act in the same way, which will produce the same result. Fortunately, the process of finding and removing this underlying condition is relatively easy. You just need to know how.
Through a series of workshops and individual support, you can end the conflict, heal the hurt, and restore the love in almost any relationship -- and you can do it quickly.
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Here are the steps:
1. Indentify the specific underlying condition that is destroying the love and sabotaging your relationship.
If you have any relationship that isn’t working there will always be an underlying condition of resisting or hanging on that is creating the problem. Once you identify this condition and see how it works, you get power over your situation.
The first step in healing any relationship is to discover what this condition is. You can do this by attending one of our evening programs or by having an individual consulting session with Bill Ferguson.
2. Remove this underlying condition.
This underlying condition is created by the automatic, subconscious avoidance of a very specific hurt from the past. Whenever this hurt, or core issue, gets triggered, we feel threatened. We then fight, resist, hang on and withdraw.
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To remove the condition that creates the destructive behavior, you need to find and heal this hurt. This can be done through individual consulting or by attending our weekend workshop, Return To The Heart.
To get the most results, have a consulting session with Bill Ferguson first. Then follow it up with Return To The Heart. If you can't do both, do the weekend workshop.
The weekend is important because you gain an awareness and a healing that permanently changes the way you live your life. The result is more love, more happiness, and a much more enjoyable life. It is physically impossible to live your life the same way after you Return To The Heart.
You can also walk through the healing process by downloading Bill's Core Issue Healing Video. If you prefer audio, get the Mastery of Life Audio Course.
3. Let go of any resentment, blaming, hanging on, and other destructive behavior.
The next step is to remove any remaining destructive behavior. This is relatively easy once you heal the hurt, but it still needs to be done.
You can do this in an individual session or you can walk through the healing process in the Mastery of Life Audio Course.
If you have attended our weekend workshop, Return To The Heart, you can walk through the healing process in our Saturday workshop, Mastery of Relationships.
4. Find solutions that work for everyone.
The fourth step in the healing process is to resolve any disputes. The key to doing this is to look for and find solutions that work for everyone. It’s amazing how fast you can find solutions when you look for them.
Make sure you read the section on resolving disputes. If you are in or near the divorce process, make sure you visit DivorceAsFriends.com.
5. Create a plan of action.
After you have walked through the healing process, the next step is to create a plan of action. How do you interact with each other in the future and what steps do you need to take to have your life be great? Where do you go from here?
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Our programs walk you through a process that automatically changes the way you relate to each other. This is true even if the other person doesn’t participate. When you change how you relate to the other person, it changes how that person responds to you.
Give us a call. We can talk more about your situation and what needs to be done. You can literally have love in every relationship and in every aspect of life. We can show you how.
If you do nothing but attend one of our evening programs, it can change your life. We look forward to seeing you.
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The Mastery of Life Audio Course
The Mastery of Life Audio Course is about developing the skills you need to heal your relationships and transform your life. You will walk through the process of finding and healing the inner core issues that destroy love and sabotage your life. Then you will learn how to end conflict, heal hurt and restore love in every relationship. You will learn, step by step, how to create a life that will exceed your dreams.
Topics include creating and maintaining love, healing your past, cleaning up your life, getting your power back, prosperity, life purpose, spirituality and more. This powerful course provides an awareness and a healing that will literally change your life.
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In this free e-course, you gain an awareness and a set of tools that change the way you relate to life. This in turn changes what happens around you. The result is more love, more peace and a much more enjoyable, productive life. Lessons arrive once a week. Each lesson provides a powerful new insight and offers specific action to take.
Life is too short to have it be anything less than wonderful.
