See the book, Get Your Power Back.

Interesting bullet points

Possible interview questions:

1. Why do you say that the problem areas of life are never the problem?

2. How do these underlying conditions work?

3. What happens when you fight the truth?

4. What is the law of resistance?

5. What is the law of cause and effect?

6. Why do you say that upsets are never caused by what happens?

7. Aren’t there times when we should get upset?

8. Why do we fight the truth?

9. How do you let go and flow with life?

10. How do you heal the inner core issues that sabotage our lives?

11. How do you restore peace of mind when you are upset?

12. What is the key to having problem areas clear up?

It only takes one person to heal a difficult relationship

Relationships usually start out great, but sooner or later someone gets hurt. Then that person gets defensive and becomes critical of the other. Then the other person gets upset and becomes more resentful in return.

Before long, the two people create a cycle of conflict -- a cycle of resisting, attacking and withdrawing from each other. This cycle of conflict then goes on and on without either person noticing his or her role in the problem. It destroys the experience of love and sabotages the relationship.

This cycle is present in any relationship that isn't working. Fortunately, the cycle cannot exist with only one person. It’s like a tennis volley. It takes two people to keep the cycle going. It only takes one person to end it. When you change how you relate to another person, you change how that person relates to you.

See the book, How To Heal A Painful Relationship.

Interesting bullet points

Possible interview questions:

1. You say that love is never enough to have a relationship work. Could you explain this?

2. What is the experience of love?

3. What creates love and what destroys it?

4. How do you end the cycle of conflict?

5. What is the biggest killer of relationships?

6. How can you accept someone that hurts you?

7. Why do you say that upsets are never caused by what happens?

8. Are relationships really 100/100 instead of 50/50?

9. What is “letting go”?

10. What is the hurt that runs our lives?

11. How do you find and heal this hurt?

12. What is the key to healing difficult relationships?

How to be effective in difficult situations

The first step in handling a difficult situation is to restore your peace of mind. When you are full of fear and upset, you lose your ability to see clearly. You also get tunnel vision. This destroys your ability to find solutions and forces you to act in a way that actually makes your situation worse.

It’s also important to get your power back. When you are in a difficult situation, you usually feel like a victim of your circumstances. Instead of having power over your situation, your situation has power over you.

To be effective in difficult times, you need to be free of the fear, upset and tunnel vision. You also need to get your power back. You do this through an internal process called letting go. As you let go, everything seems to change. You see your situation clearly and can see what needs to be done. Solutions appear and the problem area starts clearing up.

The ability to let go and flow with life is the key to handling a difficult situation. It's also the key to taking effective action and the key to creating an incredible life.

See the book, Get Your Power Back.

Interesting bullet points

Possible interview questions:

1. What should we know about handling difficult situations?

2. Aren't there times when we should be upset?

3. What happens when we get upset?

4. What creates a fear?

5. What is the law of resistance?

6. What is the law of cause and effect?

7. Why do we fight the truth?

8. How do you get your power and effectiveness back?

9. What is letting go and how do you do it?

10. Why is trusting so important?

11. How do your get rid of negative emotion?

12. What is the hurt that runs our life?

Love is never enough to have a relationship work

The divorce courts are full of people who love each other. To have a relationship be great, you need more than love, you need to make sure the other person feels loved. You do this by giving the gift of acceptance and appreciation.

Notice how you feel when someone genuinely accepts and appreciates you. It feels great. You feel better about yourself and better about life. You also feel better about the person who accepts and appreciates you. Then the other person feels better about you. Then you feel even better about the other person.

Without knowing, you create a cycle of loving, supporting and empowering each other. It’s this cycle of love that has a relationship be great. Creating this cycle of love may seem difficult, but it is relatively easy once you know how.

See the book, How To Heal A Painful Relationship.

Interesting bullet points

Possible interview questions:

1. You say that love is never enough to have a relationships work. Why do you say this?

2. What is the experience of love?

3. What creates love and what destroys it?

4. How can you accept someone that hurts you?

5. Does accepting someone mean you have to stay with the person?

6. Why do you say that upsets are never caused by what happens?

7. What is the biggest killer of relationships?

8. Are relationships really 100/100 instead of 50/50?

9. How do you remove distance?

10. What is “letting go”?

11. What are the inner issues that destroy love?

12. How do you find and heal this hurt?

How to get your power back

Any relationship and any area of life that isn’t working is an area where you have lost your power. Instead of being on top of your circumstances, your circumstances are on top of you. Confidence and creativity drop along with your energy and ability to take effective action. Nothing you do in this state seems to make a difference.

Fortunately, this is only a state of mind. You have the ability to shift from being at the effect of your situation to being the cause. The moment this happens, you get your power back. Confidence, creativity and energy return. Solutions and opportunity show up. You feel on top of your circumstances and can chart your course in life.

Being at the effect is a very painful state and it can easily be avoided. It is possible to live your life at cause most of the time. You just need to know how.

See the book, Get Your Power Back.

Interesting bullet points

Possible interview questions:

1. You state that any area of life that isn't working is an area where you have lost your power. Could you explain this?

2. What do you mean by "living at cause"?

3. How do we lose our power?

4. What is the law of resistance?

5. Why does each person have a different area of life that doesn't work?

6. What is the inner mechanism that sabotages our lives?

7. How does fighting the truth take away our power?

8. Why do we fight the truth?

9. How do you let go and flow with life?

10. How do you find the inner issues that take away our power?

11. How do you remove these issues?

12. What is the key to being effective in life?

How to part as friends

To part as friends, put your focus on ending the conflict, healing the hurt and restoring the love, not as husband and wife, but as one human being to another.

As you restore the love, one human being to another, you can see what needs to be done. If your relationship is a fit, you will come back together like magnets. If it’s not a fit, you will go your separate ways, but will do so as friends.

The steps for accomplishing this are relatively simple, but you need to know what they are.

See the book, How To Heal A Painful Relationship.

Interesting bullet points

Possible interview questions:

1. What is the experience of love?

2. What creates love and what destroys it?

3. What is the cycle of conflict?

4. How do you end the cycle of conflict?

5. Why do you say that upsets are never caused by what happens?

6. Are relationships really 100/100 instead of 50/50?

7. What is the biggest killer of relationships?

8. How can you accept someone that hurts you?

9. How do you heal the hurt?

11. How do you let go of guilt and resentment?

10. How do you restore love?